First of all, reply to me and not yourself so I can read the message instead of typing it here.
Sorry, but after reading all of this, I can't help but feel that it's a misunderstanding which was blown out of proportion. Whether you have autism or not. I can't tell. But from your actions, you seem to think that you've done nothing wrong and believe that you have the right to call out my friend's mistake because you have a social disorder. That's not how things work, buster. You claim to be fighting discrimination, by using it as a weapon. Posting any person's personal details is violating their privacy for one thing, especially with the slanderous details you've added to it. You believe that you've killed her with kindness? No, you're acting like an immature child who always wants their own way and lost her friendship by letting such a small incident consume you. If you want her to talk to you, let it go. She is not the monster which you are painting yourself as.